Lee Seunggi – Will You Marry Me

 

Lee Seunggi just came out with a new digital singles. & for those who have absolutely no idea who he is. He features on 1박 2일 (2 Days & 1 Night). which is a travel reality tv-show that has got to be like my most favourite show on KBS World (Astro Channel 303) that airs every Thu 5pm & Fri 11.20pm (Malaysian Time).

He’s nicknamed as ‘helpless’ on the show. Due to his slightly dorky/stupid/helpless yet adorable and kinda cute image he’s got on the show.

That aside, his new single is titled “Will You Marry Me”. Which i know is a title that will get y’all going..
O_o  (Diyana has gone crazy…!!)

But no i haven’t.
Its got some really smooth singing coupled with a really helplessly cute & romantic lyrics. & i just can’t help it!

Right now, i’m soooooo wishing that someone would sing this song for me. But then the song alone will probably annihilate about 99.99% of the Malaysian male population due to the language difference. So i really might as well forget about it.

But yeah i agree. I’ve got some serious contradictory issues. One moment i’m screaming that marriage is a total pain. Next moment i’m wishing a guy would sing this song for me…

Go figure.

News #1

 

Radhi OAG nafi lafaz talak, Shazlin disahkan masih isteri

PETALING JAYA – Perang mulut tercetus antara vokalis kumpulan OAG, Mohd. Radhi Razali (Radhi OAG) dan isterinya, Shazlin Shariff selepas Mahkamah Rendah Syariah di sini semalam mengesahkan mereka masih pasangan suami isteri yang sah.

Kejadian berlaku di luar pekarangan mahkamah apabila Radhi, 32, menyerbu ke arah Shazlin, 31, sambil menyindir isterinya itu sebagai ‘pelakon wanita terbaik’.

Radhi juga menuduh Shazlin mempunyai hubungan sulit dengan lelaki lain sebagai alasan untuk bercerai dan meminta Shazlin membuat pengakuan di hadapan wartawan serta menyuruhnya menelefon lelaki berkenaan yang juga bekas suami seorang pelakon.

-KOSMO.

News of the day. Even thought it was more than a week ago. But i just couldn’t let it past. Not in light of everything that has been going on lately in my life.

So here’s my point of discussion.

So first of all. Why is it. That most men, in Malaysia at least, whenever their wife asks for a divorce. When it’s their wife & NOT them who asks for divorce. They run around and scream & shout to the whole wide world “Adultery!!!~~~”.

I mean seriously… Whether it’s Radhi OAG, my dad or Auntie Winnie’s ex-husband. How is it possible that almost all men that i know, react the exact same ways. The same assumptions. Same accusations. Same modus-operandi. I wonder. It’s there like a standard guideline/help book for men to handle disgruntled wives. & if there is, i wonder, what would it be titled??  @_@

And another thing i don’t quite get. If you know for sure, without a doubt, and practically tell the whole world about it. That your other half is having an affair. Then why the hell are you not divorcing him/her. Why?? I don’t get it! Why after a betrayal like that. It just doesn’t make sense NOT to have a divorce after THAT.

Or is it really like what a guy once told me. That since most men cheats, they naturally assume that all women do as well…
Now, i am not going on a whole wide world generalization here. I KNOW that there are good men out there. The problem is. You just can’t tell which ones are.

Who would have thought that a simple dental scaling would cause me gums to bleed for 24hrs non-stop

 

& it’s true.

It’s official.

I will forever & most definitely be terrified of dentist until the day I die. As if i wasn’t already..
But now it’s a definitely.

To think the day started off nicely and ordinary enough.

11:00AM  I went for dental scaling. A normal enough procedure. People get it done on average every six months.
What could possibly go wrong…

12:00PM  I walked out covered in so much plain & blood on my gums i swear i could die.

2:00PM  I am still bleeding

6:30PM  Watched Open Concert on KBS. 2PM was on it. Still bleeding

8:30PM  I am still bleeding, and getting dizzy, and officially freaked out

9:00PM  At this point, my mom finally starts to freak out and starts calling her doctor friends. Mixed reaction on a overall. But one particular suggestion was “Hospital. Emergency room”.

10:00PM  Went to a clinic nearby. The doctor basically had two suggestions. One, if to continue applying pressure on my gums or putting some ice packs to it. Two, is to go straight to the hospital.

12:00AM  Since i genuinely don’t like hospitals about as much as i don’t like dentist. I am at home applying pressure & swallowing lots of ice

3:00AM  I think i woke up partially choking on some blood.

4:00AM  Woke up again, and again, and again, and again…

9:00AM  I am back to putting ice packs, applying pressure, and another new method, putting lemon pulp (yeah, i know.. Roll your eyes…)

11:00AM  Bleeding had slowed down considerably

2:00PM  There are blood cloth all over my gums and teeth, but i ain’t doing anything about it..

3:00PM  I could see my teeth again, and i have to admit, other than the excess amount of blood, it looks rather fine i you know what i mean

4:00PM  Came to the conclusion that i will never ever go to another dentist again in my life unless of course, my life depends on it.

So now that the congratulations have been said, lets get to the second half of the post.

Now, Jannah, if you ever read this. In any case i pray to God you never will, but in the event you do. Take my word for it.. I’d still take that bus ride to Perak, tag along with you all over Ipoh/Gopeng/Kampar/wherever else it was, shop for over RM500 worth of groceries(just image how the trolley looked like!), and do it all over again. Cos those are tiny little things i have no qualms doing for a friend.  ^_^

That said. I have no idea why people do ‘it’. By it i mean weddings/engagements/merisik/akad nikah/betrothal/etc/etc. & by  weddings/engagements/merisik/akad nikah/betrothal/etc/etc, i dont just mean the act of entering into such arrangements(of course, that would be another entirely different matter that i quite haven’t figured out yet either, but that should be a post on its own, dont ya think?), but just having the whole event/ceremony itself!
Can you  just imagine the tremendous amount of efforts that goes into it?? I mean, it is, literally, (& i am speaking from experience here folks!), physically & financially & mentally tiring & exhausting, and not to mention stressfull..!
& i can almost, just almost..understand why some people elope to the get married…
& it reminded me of a movie i saw several years ago. Jennifer Lopez in the Wedding Planner(i think..). She was a successful wedding planner, planning beautiful dream weddings for so many people, but really, all she ever wanted was to get married in front of a marriage registrar(or whatever they called it). In an office, with as little people as possible. The irony eh?

But then again, i could understand why its all necessary for us. Its part of our culture, traditions & pride. & being married is (technically) a beautiful thing. Who wouldn’t wanna do it in front of as many people as possible? Why wouldn’t you wanna tell the whole world? The bride & groom basking in all the glory of being Raja & Permaisuri Sehari.
& also  i know for a fact that my mother would beat me & my other half into a pulp if i ever do that.
That said. I suddenly remember a quote i read before. Back then it was just funny. Well, even now, it still is.

“If it were not for the presents, an elopement would be preferable.”
-George Ade

Well, i’m done. For further informations on my newfound and much, much more severe scepticism… Well..they’re not actually available online. You need to see me for that.  XP

CONGRATULATIONS~~

To my dearest friends,

~JANNAH & SHARIL~
Congratulations on your recent engagement!!!

I cant wait for another trip down to Perak for your wedding!! ^_^

 

~ASNIZA & RAHIM~
Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials!!!

I can’t believe it was 10/11 years ago that we were wearing the same school uniforms & having crushes on our secondary school seniors. & now, you two are getting married!
Now i don’t think i quite ever say it enough.. But you two girls know just how much you mean to me.
& i wish you nothing but happiness, whether it’s in marriage or in single life!
LOVE YOU!!

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P/S: honestly, i probably have another half a dozen people to
congratulate on the engagement/bethrotal/wedding/nuptials/etc,
but i will save that for when i actually know who/how/where/
what/when its is actually happening! XDD
Seriously,it seems like everyone is getting married this year!
LOL! Imagine all the wedding gifts! O_o

 

Quote #1

In between a post about Super Junior and Boys Over Flower. This one just had to come first…

The stupidest quote of the day.

Out of the mouth of an RTM anchor. Seconds after the election result of Bukit Selambau was announced.

“Yang menang itu tidak semestinya menang, yang kalah itu tidak semestinya kalah”.

Pfffftt…!!! What on earth is that?? Therefore, tak payah lah menang Olimpik. Masuk Commonwealth Games. Main bola ke, badminton ke, tenis ke. Heck, tak bayah buat ape-ape pertandingan pun. Or create first prize or second place.
Therefore jugak, tak payahlah susah-susah buat election kan..? O_o

Fact of life. There will always be winners and losers.
& on today, it’s damn good to be on the other side of the fence.